Beeing Active.

 

Well, in my way of thinking usually when I say something I precise to others what does it mean for me. It's very important, because I know that the same word can mean something totally different for other people. And to avoid misunderstanding, you can just explain the keyword which you are using, and make your life more easy.

 

So, what does it mean: "Beeing active" for me? Beeing active means using my time in creative way. Organising my time in the way, that I have less things to do next day and beeing happy of my previous day.

 

Like you know I am a Mom and I keep my daughter at home with me. I work, I am also a volontaire Fireman in the local Fireman Center. I find time to make my workouts and to share with you my thoughts via my website. And if you saw my Atelier, you can imagine, what I do in my "free" time.

Now the question how do I do, to manage all those tasks?

 

The answer is simple - I am active and organised.

I try to not waste my time. In the age of my 20s I was studing and working at the same time. At that time, I've learned how to make several things simultaneously.

I know that it's not easy and not everybody can do it. But I know also that with some work you are able to learn this capacity.

 

My days are full, specially when my daughter is with me. I am this type of mom who is playing/teaching/explaining/speaking/doing everything, even working out with her child.

 

Each day I find back my energy to end up my day in arms of my husband on the sofa, watching tv... :-) yes.. it's the best moment of my day!

 

I want my family to be happy, because when I see my husbands' and my daughters' smile, I know  that they are missing nothing. So I mobilize myself to clean up the house, do the house jobs, cook something nice each day and in general  keep "the home fire".

 

What is the secret? It comes when you see the good feedback. You can shut down very fast if you don't have the feedback you expect.. It's sad, but this is the reality. Once you have people around you, which you love and you feel the love, you are able to move the mountains (everybody who was in love once, knows this feeling) So the most important is to keep this feeling. I know that somtimes is hard, but if you are able to give and receive love you are able to do everything.

 

There is a lot of books how to become active and how to manage your time to be effective. For me the most important question you need to ask youself is: "why do you want to be active?", "What it will give to you?" , "How it will change you?". If you are happy with those answers, you need to take a REAL decision inside you: "Hell yeah! I will do it!" And stay consistent in your decision.

 

I worte this post because I've received a lot of questions: how do I do to make everything I do. And the answer for me was simple, but I see that behind this subject, there is a lot of points like: motivation, relationship, finding youself and others, which I will write about in the future.

 

Tell me what do you think and what is you motivatior to generate your energy?